Values Clarification Exercise
- Jen Howlett
- Mar 13
- 1 min read
Purpose: Clarify what truly drives current decisions
Values change.What mattered at 25 may not matter now.
Clarity requires updating your internal compass.
Opening Scenario
You feel off — but you can’t name why.You’re productive, but unsettled.
Often, that’s a values misalignment.
Why Values Drift
• Success redefines priorities
• Seasons of life change
• External expectations override internal ones
• Old goals linger past their relevance
Unexamined values quietly steer decisions.
The Values Clarification Process
Step 1: List 10 qualities you admire in others.
Step 2: Narrow to 5 that feel most essential to how you want to live.
Step 3: Narrow to 3 that must be operational in your daily life.
Examples might include:IntegrityFreedomGrowthStabilityConnectionImpactCreativityPeace
Operational Test
For each top value, ask:
• How does this show up in my calendar?
• Where is this currently compromised?
• What would honoring this require?
Values are not ideas.They are behaviors.
Reflection
Which decision in your life becomes easier when viewed through your top three values?




