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Values Clarification Exercise

Purpose: Clarify what truly drives current decisions

Values change.What mattered at 25 may not matter now.

Clarity requires updating your internal compass.


Opening Scenario

You feel off — but you can’t name why.You’re productive, but unsettled.

Often, that’s a values misalignment.


Why Values Drift

• Success redefines priorities

• Seasons of life change

• External expectations override internal ones

• Old goals linger past their relevance


Unexamined values quietly steer decisions.


The Values Clarification Process

Step 1: List 10 qualities you admire in others.

Step 2: Narrow to 5 that feel most essential to how you want to live.

Step 3: Narrow to 3 that must be operational in your daily life.


Examples might include:IntegrityFreedomGrowthStabilityConnectionImpactCreativityPeace


Operational Test

For each top value, ask:

• How does this show up in my calendar?

• Where is this currently compromised?

• What would honoring this require?


Values are not ideas.They are behaviors.


Reflection

Which decision in your life becomes easier when viewed through your top three values?

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